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Nick Hyde's avatar

Thanks Mark. Just a quick comment on the "Unchurched" phenomena. Being one of "those" people myself, I feel a real connection to those seeking a true version of faith and share their frustration with not being able to find it in the established church today.

I find it annoying that the study blames people leaving churches based on modern lifestyles that just don't have time for church on Sundays. People will make time to do anything they regard as a priority or important in their lives no matter when or how often it occurs.

I think the "better churches" argument doesn't hold water either. I think maybe more honest churches where people are allowed to be honest about doubts and fears and are free to live outside the highly restrictive bubble environment that has become most church culture today would be a good start. I personally couldn't care less that churches are full of "selfish, prideful people" (is there any other type?), I just wish they'd have enough faith to not be terrified to show themselves and be honest about it.

Lastly, I have absolutely no problem with the "rules" laid down by Jesus (or my perennial inability to live up to them). The whole purpose of coming together in fellowship and worship is to stimulate one another to love and good works. I'm just sick and tired of all the false cultural markers that have been laid down on top of Jesus' commandments and dressed up by established churches to impersonate gospel truth.

No, I don't see me or any of my unchurched friends objecting to calendar conflicts, needing "better" churches, or having to submit to any series of rules.

What me and most of my friends are sick and tired of dealing with are meetings that are more important than people, congregants terrified of being themselves for fear of being rejected by their group, and fellowships that are more about toxic cultural movements than the Jesus we profess to worship.

Let's start by talking about those points and we might actually start getting somewhere...

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Peter S.'s avatar

Thank you, mark. Always good to interact with you.

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